Conviction !!

Conviction ! A very strong word indeed. And the mind requires to be lots more stronger , to reach this level of a decision making.

We come across in life, so many failures, so many successful people all around us.. Few whom we know, lots who are unknown to us. But who has labelled them as being successful or a failure? It’s a very obvious thing , right? A person you see is happening , be it in his career and personal life…you call him/her or term him as being so successful in life. But, if anything goes wrong or has gone wrong with the same person … in his/her life.. do we still see that person or term him/her to be happening or successful? I don’t think so.

There’s just a small gap between people who have reached where they have aspired to be , to people who are still on their way to reach . It’s no rat race. Its a very personal thing to feel what you want to be, where you want to be.

In the process of reaching out there where you want to see yourself in the next few years.. is where your conviction comes to picture. To be clear in your goals in life is a true blessing , added on to that , when you get convinced within yourself to start your journey towards it, no matter what hindrances come inbetween or you face, is a true challenge in life which personifies the true person you are from within.

Its just this thin gap which people have surpassed and reached their goal for we see them , appreciate them for what they are today . You think it was all easy for them ? No. not at all.

Before, you blame life …being fair to few…being unfair to few.. one has to understand very clearly  as to what you have given back to your life . Yes, that’s the question. If you have wholeheartedly given… with a true conviction.. or has been giving , then you are already there! Or may be you are on your way to reach out there… one hundred percent! Not going to be easy… requires lots of sacrifice.. but all worth.It’s very much possible.

So pull up your own shoes!

It’s time we be firm! We be convinced. We be tough . For nothing can bend us or our goal . Let’s be relaxed..lets chill..for we are in the right track ..in the journey to achieve something that we have always been wanting to. So let’s reach out there…come what may. To be a woman/man of substance.

It’s a beautiful journey then, isn’t it?

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Juggling around, or relaxed? !

Preference ! Everything, every single thing in life, is a choice that we make. Be it for ourselves, or for people around us. Right? Be whatever may be the circumstance, its certainly ‘us’ who make a choice. So, take this moment into count, just look back to yourself, are you actually relaxed or juggling around? 😀 . Mentally I mean. Physically u might be on a couch for hours , or even a whole day may be 😀 , but, mentally are you sorted? are you relaxed?

To keep wandering in thoughts is everyone’s favourite time-pass, but in that same thought process can we draw, a kind of a pause, to our own thoughts ? for a change… where in , we can be relaxed, we can be calm, we can be more sorted. Truly, when this much of a natural process is all taken care by Almighty, is there actually anything that we have to achieve right now by thinking this much? 😀 makes sense, right? Is there anything that’s going to change now from your thoughts or has anything changed till now?

Seriously, its our day and hour to be a little selfish …to give our own mind and body some rest …that can work wonders over a period of time. Isn’t it? All up-to us how well we prioritize ourselves and how easily we sort out ourselves mentally . If its a Sunday… enjoy…have fun…anywhere you are …its okay, really , not to think 😀

Now, what can be the outcome of this kind of a mindset? No major change may happen around your surrounding or may happen for good….but..for sure, internally, within yourself, aren’t you more happy ? more full of life…this way? To have carried away your time more happily ….aren’t you happy ?

Entire life… we put this much of an effort in sorting situations, to sort things out with our loved ones… but sorting our own minds, we either step back …or we give a negligence. Isn’t it?

Enough of juggling around …all it requires, is a mindset.. to have a simple no thought time..for a short while at least ! Let’s clean our mind for that ..let’s stop juggling around..let’s stay relaaaxxedd !!!

Create your own sunshine.

Every morning , reminds us of the fact that its us, who’s one in nature, it’s us who has to shine … and that too every single day. Our day’s purpose when we wake up has to be , to shine!! Whatever may be your day is going to be like, however hectic it is aspired to be, how boring it would have meant to be, still,,,, its left to us, to be a “hero” during the day.

Let’s have this ‘heroism’ from within …so as to reflect the same on others . Let’s be kind, let’s be helpful, let’s be compassionate, let’s be loving, let’s  be adorable, let’s be beautiful….soo beautiful from within that we automatically shine from outside. It’s not only about we shining here, but its also, to an extent, bringing about that ‘rainbow of shine’ in people around you, to the situation you are in , to the ambiance you create, its so natural and easy, isn’t it? For this to happen , there’s certainly a “mee” time that’s required each day without fail to gain this kind of a compassion . A compassion where in you like yourself so much, that you don’t depend on others to praise you , to make you feel happy.

A mee time, which knows no worldly things around, which knows no roles to play around ! It’s a much needed thing, as we , all of us indeed are so very tuned in our lives to our roles, this much .So sad…isn’t it.

So let’s uproot ourselves…such is the Ora one can spread . This shine in us is as true as us. So, lets not fade it , lets focus on nurturing it, for its ours.

After all, the reflection is anyways seen . By us, from within …. by others, from outside !! 

Write your own destiny!

It’s you, to define your own life. Not anybody else. Right? It’s your life and it’s you who has to shape it, the way you want it. 

Why is that we get hurt? Why is that we stop? Why is that we are not able to express? Why is that we put a pause to our own life? Is it because we value others opinion on us ? Or is it because we lack self confidence?

Each one of us are born with our own strengths and weaknesses. Isn’t it? Then, why is that we so obsessed with our weakness? How can we contribute to our own destiny or life, if we depend this much on others to know about ourselves..? 

As a matter of fact, others opinion on us in our life doesn’t matter or shouldn’t matter. Of course, you have to respect elders, take their advice, listen to all criticisms , for they make you strong. All respect for the kind of experience our ancestors have had, definitely to take their words, advice and follow also if required!

But, in this day and age, there are certainly few people around you, whose victory, only depends on you giving up . Whose entertainment lies, only in your tears. Have you noticed? So, why give this much of a prominence to them? To ruin your life? Waste all time…over it? Not required.

Is life yours or theirs? It’s 100% yours. Right? Nobody else’s here. Whatever may be the situation in your life, ‘you are the dictator‘. You are the decision maker of your own destiny. Right? Then,why blame others?? When, we have given this much of a place in our heart , prominence in our heart …to their opinion., their judgments…not required.. right?

As it’s your life, you rock it!! The more they want you to loose, you win. The more they want you to cry, you laugh. The more they want to see your defeat, you shine. No importance to such people what so ever. Not worth . Let’s dictate our own destiny where in, we dont hurt others, focus on spreading happiness.., makes sense?

If they are yours, if they are your well wishers, then, they will definitely wish for your victory !!! They will want you to smile, they will want to see you shine … such are the people who deserve all your love and time !! Value and respect all those people around you, who are this genuine, who are yours.

It’s time…to live life! Without any grudge or disturbance. Let’s be passionate. There’s so much to achieve. Let’s invest our time and energy in that.

Start !! Build your own destiny !! It all begins with a clean mind !! Make it your’s today !! Start working on yourself , your own life, it’s a beautiful journey !!

Go – Kart 😀

Go Kart !! So much fun !! As you race and race , you want to win .. you want to reach first 😀. It’s a good thing ! Adventure is always super fun ! You, for a moment forget who you are, what your duties are, and just live at this moment, so as to live, is to win !! It’s amazing isn’t it . Any adventure sport for that matter, is the same .

You .. have no choice but to be, and live in the moment … to win 😀 yes, it’s the only thing !! so good it can get 🤗, right?

But, why is that we need this kind of a ‘push’ each time ? If not for any adventure or any new stuff, we are back to our own world of thoughts, any reasons?? For no good , I should say . As these are the thoughts which often curb enthusiasm in us. And, that is where, I should say, a child’s enthusiasm towards anything is unmatched!

So let’s be “thought free” anywhere we are, the glow on our face is anyways seen if we are living just for this minute !!

Or .. even after all this, if it still gets bugging, go, Karting 😍😀. Adventure in any form … is definitely fun, getting out from your routine .. is a basic need of the hour 😍.

 Be joyful , be adventurous , be thought free ” . 

Entangled

How much entangled we all our, with every person around us, we have a kind of an emotion that we share, be it, knowingly or unknowingly. Emotion could be in any form …could be in the form of happiness, love, anger, greed, jealousy, pride, anxiety, weakness, anything for that matter.

A simple shop keeper in a grocery store, can either make you happy by giving that extra discount 😀 , or send you back with a happy mood even otherwise 🙂 . Our house maid doesn’t turn up … we are in worst possible mood , isn’t it 😀

So, in other words, our mood depends on these many people, could be all people around us, with whom we are entangled all through our day.

One mantra for happiness can be , do not let any of these people enter your mind or heart. Do not get entangled in any situation or with any person. As it can only bring in an emotion, that’s temporary. Every action in the body is a result of the chemical reaction that goes through inside , right? So every emotion that you have felt or feel will have a chemical reaction and our reaction to it is always an outcome!

Not required , right ?

Rather, let’s get entangled within ourselves, in nature! So that , we not only are , but can also bring in that calmness in others , that can actually change the whole situation topsy turvy !! Try it out !! Not only are you calm and composed, and happy like this , but you are actually influencing an other person around you also, to be the same !

As the saying goes, ‘always mind your mind’. How true… right?

What’s new?

Wow! The very phrase , “what’s new” makes me imagine , my new wardrobe 😀 . For we girls , how much ever old we grow, it doesn’t matter . Shopping new stuff especially clothes , gives us utmost happiness, isn’t it 😀 ?

There’s all good about a new thing . Whatever it could be . It could be your new car, your new bike, your new attire, your new bag, your new style for that matter, your new job , your new pen , your new anything …. there is a kind of excitement in it for sure. Isn’t it? There’s some kind of new love towards this new one that you have not tried before or you have just tried. That fondness is what i mean here .

So, this kind of an obvious fondness , do we often find when we wake up in he morning? Yes, its a new horizon, its a new morning , right? We have not experienced or tried it before :)) yeah… so it’s ‘new’ , right ?  But, still why is that we find it old, same old ? Human nature i guess .

This morning , I woke up to the same attitude, but now while typing this , am so over whelmed. Seriously . Its a new day today . And… am asking  myself, why am i holding on this much to old stuff? Ask yourself… when this morning is new, why is that you are not new? When we know there’s happiness in starting new, why not ? Why is that we hold on to our horses this much? haa? It’s the reason we are not able to see or feel this morning freshness that has just begun now !

“Its a new day.. its a new you” So live !! in that fondness as it will definitely be a new experience today ! Everything new is promised to you today for sure 😀

So , hey , its a ‘new you’ each day , do explore yourself ! have fun !!